Every guy wants to date a hot BBW, but most can't figure out how to do so. I won't seriously date a girl unless I think she is top notch, and most of my female friends are hot, so I have a pretty good grasp on how to pick women like them up. From my viewpoint, it's pretty easy to pick them up, and I'm about to share that with you. Before you continue reading, understand that women are different, but this is a compilation of the similarities that I notice between them. Let's talk about what will get you dismissed before you even approach them. If you have a reputation for getting rejected, you're done. What this means is that if a girl within your social circle knows that you get rejected by BBW, she will not have anything to do with you. Also, if you're out at a bar and a hot girl sees you get rejected by another woman, you're also done.

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In plain English, this basically means that you have one shot. If she sees or knows about you getting rejected by another BBW, you're done. The numbers game is a bad idea, so if you want to date a hot girl, she basically has to be the first and only girl that you approach in that particular venue or social circle (within her view or knowledge, in other words). Also, if you have a reputation for dating or sleeping with unattractive BBW, you are basically done. If she knows that you've been dating or sleeping with unattractive BBW, then you're done. If she sees you flirting with unattractive women, you're done, even if you do successfully pick-up the unattractive girl. Women will judge you based on the women they see you go after or accept dating/sleeping with. You are better off standing alone or being single than being seen with an unattractive woman in a flirtatious or sexual manner. Being seen with another woman in a sexual or flirtatious manner only works to your benefit with hot women when the girls you're seen with are also hot.

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Moving forward, all BBW like to date upwards. With that in mind, you basically have to bring something that she wants and can't get easily from other men. For example, some men are more muscular than most men. Hot girls like that. Personally, I dress better and am taller than most men. A lot of hot girls like that. Some men have more money than most men and aren't afraid to flaunt it (money means nothing if you aren't willing to spend it). Hot girls like that. Some men are simply more popular than most men. Hot BBW like that. Either way, you have to bring something to the table that the hot girl doesn't encounter every day with other men (it is not enough to simply be on par with other men).*

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As for how you should approach a hot BBW, it depends. If she is giving you indicators of interest before or as soon as you approach, be direct with her in expressing your interest. She's already interested you, so there's no need to beat around the bush. I'm not saying be direct and then get her number. I'm saying that she's interested in you, so there's no need for you to sell yourself to her. You still should have a brief conversation with her to at least build a little rapport, though. But what if you approach her and she isn't showing you any clear signs of interest (like hardcore direct eye contact)? Then don't be direct in expressing your sexual interest right away. Instead, sell yourself some first. I'm not saying that you should brag, but your looks clearly aren't enough to win her over. You gotta talk to her and kind of sell who you are as a person. If you have a really nice paying job, find a way to slide it into conversation. If you happen to be a promoter or bartender, find a way to slide it in there. If you happen to drive a Porsche, find a way to slide it into conversation.

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Whatever the case, don't rely too heavily on your personality.** Hot women may like certain personality types, but what's really going to sell them on you are tangible things like what you have, your social position (who you are and who you know/hang out with), your job, how much money you're bringing in, your looks, your clothes, etc. It really is that clear cut. Personality is something that women think about after the more tangible things that they can identify as making you better than most men. Until you find something tangible to really sell yourself to hot women, you really don't stand a chance with them (And if you don't have this, then you need to work on it before you can even think about having a legit shot with oversized women).

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And finally, strike while the iron is hot. Not only do you need to call this BBW and set up a date as soon as possible, but you gotta show them that you are really interested in them. It may not be necessary, but if the girl really is hot, you really can't afford to be lax and let another guy swoop her from right underneath your nose. These chubby girls get hit on ALL OF THE TIME, so if you don't move fast they're going to get swooped by another guy that didn't risk resting on his laurels. Just because she likes you it doesn't mean that she's going to wait around on you.

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